Been Dumped and Want Them Back? This is How to Get Back With Your Ex
Have you ever been dumped, I have, and it hurts like hell.
What can you do if it was not your decision?
Give it a good month for things to settle down and then if you want to get your girlfriend or boyfriend back start putting an action plan together.
There are several things that you must do though if you are to have any chance of getting them back.
Never bad mouth or do anything to upset them.
Try to remember what attracted them to you in the first place and try to recreate the scene.
Try to work out why they may have finished with you.
Do not date someone else just to make them jealous.
Once you have followed the above points then use these conclusions to work out your next step. If the break up was your fault then you need to apologize. Leaving things a few weeks before you do this will give the dust time to settle.
Do not try to telephone as you may just get accused of harassment. Offer your apologies in a personal letter and make sure you sound sincere. Even though you may be genuinely upset and sad by the break up try not to let it show. This is why a letter is best as written words can sound a lot stronger than you actually feel. Do not however ask to get back with them at this moment in time. You may get a response to your letter and the contents will normally give a good indication on where you stand now.
Make a list of the things that you like and dislike about your ex. Also make an honest list of the things that your ex liked and disliked about you. These two lists could be the difference between getting back or staying apart. If you are prepared to turn the dislikes into likes then you are halfway there. After 4 to 5 weeks contact your ex and ask to meet just as friends. If they do not agree to this then you will just have to accept that it is probably over. If they agree then there is a good chance that they want to see if there is still a future with you. If possible try to arrange to go to the place where you had your first date (provided it will bring back good memories), if not go to a place where you both have good memories of. When meeting up again take things slowly (no matter how desperate you are to get them back) and just enjoy the time that you are together. Time will tell whether you are meant to be together but following these guidelines will give you a solid foundation to work on.
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