TollieSchmidt.com answers a question from a teenage student asking for advice. He was asked by his girlfriend, “Why do you love me”? The problem is he did not know how to respond. Simple answer, your not in Love. It never occurred to them that you’d become even more magnificent. That they’d be invoking your sympathy, adding to your compassion, and increasing your “greatness.” And it will still be eons before they can grasp that you actually welcomed them into your life and played their …
March 11th, 2009 at 5:33 am
hey cutie. I would be worried about the consequences if I was in love. I would be worried about the person I love and would my actions would od to hurt or make them happy
March 11th, 2009 at 5:59 am
Tollie is hot. I really like your videos. I think you would be a great boyfriend
March 11th, 2009 at 6:11 am
i would have kicked that guy to the curb as soon as his jaw dropped and he couldnt answer……
March 11th, 2009 at 7:18 am
at 7:06:00 you talk about how thngs depend on our reference point. that is so true, you dont even know how that is my life.
March 12th, 2009 at 12:39 am
Let me count the ways….hahaha…..
I think some o fthe French movies are really based in reality. they are sometimes almost painful to watch because their so like real life. But the whole American Barbie thing has really impacted our society.
March 12th, 2009 at 8:15 am
the guy needs t move on if he cant answer her question. your right Tollie. He doesnt love her.
March 13th, 2009 at 2:08 am
alytara, i completely agree. this isnt ‘decide what you want time’ either he loves her or not
March 13th, 2009 at 4:05 am
u go boy. u r sexy and smart. a deadly combination. i subscribed.
March 13th, 2009 at 9:37 am
i know what its like not to know what to say. but that was because there were too many reasons to be in love with her. when its every little thing, how do pick the most important…
March 13th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
brkfstfoods, i tink thats dif tha what Tollie is saying, the guy he’s referencing ovsiously didnt know what he was wanted
March 14th, 2009 at 1:48 am
When she’s there, even if its in silence, that feeling is love…….
right on the point
March 14th, 2009 at 4:22 am
he also says love is an emotion not a word. truest words every spoeken ******
March 14th, 2009 at 7:16 am
some guys R jsut players and they make me sick. they think they can just treat girls anyway, your right thats not love
March 15th, 2009 at 12:50 am
but like Tollie said on the ‘cheating’ vid, some people do things without WANTING to hurt you.
I think taht even if you are a player, that doesnt mean your trying to hurt others it just makes you selfish…
March 16th, 2009 at 8:41 am
selfishness is no excuse. it means u dont care enough about other people. and that, in itself is causing pain on purpose
March 16th, 2009 at 4:27 pm
but i stil dont think being selfish is being intentionally mean. Tollie’s point is that when someone cheats its not your fault. its their fault. and i agree 1,000%. Wehterh their trying to be mean or not, their doing something wrong
March 16th, 2009 at 10:39 pm
Ouch the guy should be shot. he needs to stop leading people on.
March 18th, 2009 at 4:11 am
I placed this video in my fav.s girls are always asking ‘why do love me”? what the???? Because your hot. Your smart. I dig the way you move. That dimple. Tha thting in your voice……… need I say more?
March 18th, 2009 at 6:55 am
Exactly Tollies point. You know a thousand thigns or you know nothing If you know nothing. Your not in love.
March 18th, 2009 at 7:04 am
He doesnt love her. he might not even know it. sad…
March 20th, 2009 at 6:33 am
yes. usually these thigns end up hurting everyone
June 7th, 2009 at 1:46 pm
Yep, he doesn’t love her.
June 16th, 2009 at 3:05 pm
A lot of guys are douche bags
June 16th, 2009 at 6:07 pm
For some reason I feel this one kinda personal.
June 19th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
Very well said.