You can get the outcomes you want by making good choices and being prepared to take bold action steps. *You need to take charge of the situation even though she may seem disinterested. Be encouraged by the experience of many other hurting guys who have had relationship break ups. *Actions have spoken louder than words and you’ll be surprised how simple some of those break up busting actions can be. * Just one apparent random act of kindness on your part can turn the situation around. That …